swanson yearbook

My 365 Day book arrived safe and sound and my sister sent me these photos of the real thing. I love it! (The Who mag to give me an idea of it’s size)

blurb-365-days-book365-grateful365-grateful-book365-grateful-book-blurbSo on to my next photo project – our nov’11 – oct’12 yearbook and #5 on my birthday list. I saw the idea on pinterest or a blog some time ago and given we have hard drives full of great photos (one of many benefits of marrying a handsome photographer) I figured it would be a great way to store and share our favourite snapshots.

I saved some beautiful examples of family photo books on my pinterest and updated my blurb software. I was very happy with their program for my 365 book, and while I haven’t seen the printed version in person yet, I’ve been told it looks and feels great.

The hardest part of these books is getting all the photos I need together into one program. I have a hopeless system of photo storage. Probably 75% of the photos I’d like to use are on Will’s computer – thankfully he’s got a much better filing system, but his computer is current with him in South Sudan so I can’t progress much further.

So here’s a few pages I have so far…

A summer’s afternoon at Bribie Island.

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Instagram shots from Christmas ’11.Screen shot 2013-04-09 at 4.38.24 PM

The day we met our niece – only a day old herself!Screen shot 2013-04-09 at 4.38.32 PM

iPhone pics from our last few months in Brisbane.Screen shot 2013-04-09 at 4.39.01 PMI plan (optimistically) to put together a photo book for each coming year. Rather than follow the January to December year, I’m doing November to October, to coincide with each year of marriage (our anniversary is November 19). If it’s not too expensive, I’d really like to print two copies each year – one to keep out and look at all the time and one to store away as a family keepsake. I was inspired by one of my new favourite bloggers – Ashley Ann of Under the Sycamore – because I loved seeing photos of her kids going through their family albums.

Something to plan for I guess ;)

Making my 365 Days of Laura book

I have a bad habit of excitedly starting a project, but then I get frustrated with it, or forget it, or get distracted (look, something shiny!) and my poor little project never gets finished.365-grateful-book

Like my 365 Days book. I’m pretty sure I started working on it about eight months ago. I patiently downloaded all my photos from my 365 Days of Laura project. I researched various types of photo book software, deciding on Blurb, and downloaded BookSmart on my Mac. I took a few quiet evenings to upload all my photos into the software and started playing with the layout. And then… I got frustrated. And gave up. And then I forgot I even started.

365-grateful-book1I came back to it a few months ago and my frustration returned. I kept changing my mind on how I wanted it to look, and re-editing 365 photos various times was driving me crazy. And then I found this great quote…

Done is better than perfect.

I think that should be my life motto, because perfectionism is a nasty little fella that kicks me around far too often.

So I got stuck back into it, figured out a layout I liked and stuck it through. Plus Will sent me a discount coupon he received via his email, and the prospect of 25% off helped me finally kick it over.

365-grateful-book2365-grateful-book3Of course, I doubt Blurb delivers to Kenya and I don’t have a lot of faith in the postal system here anyway, so I got the book delivered to my folks and won’t get a chance to hold it in my hands for a good few months. But hey. It’s done!

I can officially cross #18 off my birthday list.

#14 – Make a big deal out of birthdays

I’ve already decided I’d like to stick to this even after my year is over. Making a big deal out of birthdays has been fun for the birthday kids, but surprisingly even more fun for me. I get such a happiness kick out of it.

The underlying principle has been to do just that bit extra than I normally would to celebrate someone on their special day – buy a gift if I’d normally just send a text, make an effort when it’d be easy and understandable to let the day pass, throw a party when they least expect it.

When a friend in Nairobi organised a surprise birthday dinner for his wife, we not only made an effort to be there, but also brought along a small gift.

IMG_6122When our German friends invited us to Hot Pot as a combined birthday / farewell party, we brought a packet of party hats to get us into the party spirit.

When a dear girlfriend turned 24 back in Australia, I didn’t just rely on an email or fb message, which would be the easiest route to follow when living 1000s of kilometres away. I waited until the latest book by one of our favourite authors was released, ordered it on Amazon and had it sent over.

When my sister’s birthday rolled round, I sent beautiful Blossom and Twine flowers AND created a fb album of photos highlighting my favourite things about her.

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2And when we realised we’d be missing the 30th birthday of an Aussie friend who has been visiting us here, we organised a surprise birthday party with a bunch of guys, feeding them ribs and birthday cake and singing happy birthday. I actually didn’t hang around for all of that because the conversation of eight guys quickly turned to rugby and UFC groin injuries, and I just didn’t have anything to contribute.

Doing just that little bit more really hasn’t cost me much extra, and yet I get such a good feeling spoiling people on their birthday and I think it really makes people feel special.

laura swanson’s theory of online happiness

And the theory is this..

Using the internet only makes me happy if I am contributing, creating or connecting more than I am consuming.”

Profound, yes? :)

The internet can be an endless rabbit warren of social media and new sites and funny videos and intriguing links and before long you realise you’ve spent the last hour completely wasting time. A sneakily addictive slippery little slippery slope.

But! The internet is also a wonderful platform to share your voice, inspire real-life creativity (what’s the point of pinning a cool idea if you never use it in the real world?) and stay connected – especially when your favourites are halfway around the world!

Eat more than you move and you tend to get heavier. Mindlessly click more than you contribute / create / connect and you tend to get weighed down, too.

the top ten

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I’m following my friend Sarah’s lead and sharing my favourite books from 2012. As a result of getting a Kindle for my birthday and committing to reading one book a week (#24 on my list), I’m quite sure I’ve read more this past year than any other. And. it. has. been. so. good.

Most Favourite

The Happiness ProjectGretchen Rubin

I’ve already shared a little bit about this book. It’s a wonderful mix of research, reflection and inspiration on a topic of great importance: happiness! I often find quotes from Rubin floating around my head during the day and the best point I took away from the book is to be me.

Most ‘Should Be Read by Everyone’

Incidents in the Life of a Slave Girl Written by Herself - Harriet Ann Jacobs

This book would also take out the ‘Most Gripping’, ‘Most Inspiring’ and ‘Most Thought Provoking’ category if I didn’t put it in here. Wow. Jacobs provides incredible personal insight into slavery in the US in the 1800s, sharing her own story as a young slave girl and detailing the most degrading, horrible practice. It was deeply moving.

Most Fascinating

(Note: 2012 saw me particularly intrigued by Mormonism and Neuroplasticity!)

Under the Banner of HeavenJon Krakauer

Krakauer’s book is the true story of a chilling murder by Mormon fundamentalists. Rather than just explore the murders though, the book weaves together a fascinating look at Mormon history through personal accounts, interviews and historical research.

Becoming Sister Wives - Kody, Meri, Janelle, Christine, and Robyn Brown

I’ve been fascinated by the polygamous communities I’ve come in contact with here in Kenya, and just as fascinated by this account of a polygamous Mormon family in the States. What was most fascinating was reading the women share how they believed it was the right way to live, even as they were so open about the incredible struggles and challenges polygamy presents.

The Woman Who Changed Her BrainBarbara Arrowsmith-Young

I started reading this book because my sister bought a copy to read on the flight home from our Sydney adventure. I probably wouldn’t usually choose it. But then I couldn’t put it down. An amazing story of a woman who overcame incredible learning difficulties through ‘brain exercises’ she developed herself, and has since gone on to establish a program to help thousands of people ‘change their brain’. Some of the science went a little bit over my head, but it was fascinating!

The Shallows: How the internet is changing the way we think, read and rememberNicholas Carr

The Shallows takes some of the same research that came up in The Woman Who Changed Her Brain and related it to something we’re all very familiar with – using the internet. Again, the research was fascinating and Carr included interviews and his own personal reflections to question the way the internet is changing the very way our brains function. Thank you Sarah for the recommendation!

Most ‘I-didn’t-think-I’d-get-so-into-it’

Lazarus RisingJohn Howard

Though I can remember drawing a picture of Howard as part of a Grade Six assignment, I can’t say I was following Australian politics closely at the time. Lazarus Rising covers many of the big political issues of Howard’s time, with Howard’s personal reflections on the personalities, the policies and the leadership challenges. I have to say I learnt a lot reading this book, and was especially interested to read bits and pieces on many of today’s political personalities. I guess I tend to forget that politicians aren’t one hit wonders and have usually been on the scene a lot longer than we’d know.

Most Thought Provoking

Revolutionary RoadRichard Yates

I finally got round to reading this classic after ongoing recommendations from my husband. He knows how involved I get in books – I tend to soak up the mood, good or bad, so I do watch what I read – and warned me it could be depressing. But even though I read it quickly (it’s only short), I’ve spent much longer thinking it through.

Most Gripping

Son of Hamas - Mosab Hassan Yousef

Again, I have to thank Sarah for the recommendation, so basically – what Sarah said.

Most Inspiring

UnbowedWangari Maathai

A great read upon arrival in Kenyan, as it is the memoir of Kenya’s first Nobel Prize Winner and an incredible environmental and political activist – Wangari Maathai. Inspiring and eye-opening, this book also gave great context to different issues here in Nairobi.

There we go! Any books I should add to my ‘Must Read List’ in 2013?

glitter safari

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When I saw gold glitter and a packet of plastic safari animals within a few metres of each other at our local supermarket, I snapped them up straight away. Art supplies are a bit hit and miss here in Nairobi, so if I see something I like it’s best to buy in then and there – it could be months until it’s in the store again! And I knew exactly what I should do with these cheap new treasures…

IMG_6666 IMG_6667 IMG_6668 IMG_6670 IMG_6671 There are lots of DIY instructions on Pinterest and the like. With my basic supplies, I found I got the best result when I painted the animals in gold nail polish, let them dry, smeared a layer of glue across the animal and then sprinkled glitter on them (with non-sticky fingers). When I rolled the animal in glitter, things tended to get clumpy or the glitter stuck to each other in the bowl, rather than sticking to the animal!

IMG_6674 IMG_6676 IMG_6677We hosted our first Kenyan dinner party on Saturday, in belated celebration of the Christmas we missed. Sparkly safari animals seemed like the perfect mix of Christmas and Kenya, no? A long procession of creatures weaved through our table centrepiece and looked especially pretty by candlelight!

snail mail

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postcard-kenyaOne of the reflections that has stuck with me after reading The Happiness Project is Rubin’s ‘Second Splendid Truth’:

One of the best ways to make yourself happy is to make other people happy; One of the best ways to make other people happy is to be happy yourself.

Surprising a friend with a hand-written postcard makes me happy, hence #10 on my birthday listSend 52 tidbits of snail mail.

The fun of picking out the postcard, the challenge of squeezing in as many details as I can, the satisfaction of pressing down the stamp and sliding the whole thing into a mail box – I love it all! The process itself makes me smile.

Then, depending how reliable the Kenyan postal system is, a few weeks later I get a whole new ‘happiness hit’ when I hear that my little bit of snail mail has arrived safely in the mail box of a dear friend, and that they were thrilled to receive it.

And then, I break out into a Lion-King inspired “It’s the circle of happiness…” and off I go to write another note home.

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